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Awareness & Energy

Relationship Circle for Coaching

Use this relationship circle worksheet to explore support, trust, and boundaries around a specific goal. Circle positions reflect the client’s experience today; they are not scores of another person’s value. Initials or role labels are enough for the preview.

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1

Place people into support circles*

Place people into support circles

Unconditional cheerleaders, intimate confidants, safe harbor.
Advisors, colleagues, coaches, and mutual accountability partners.
Professional network, casual acquaintances, industry peers.
2

Is there anyone currently in your inner circle who might need to be moved further out? Why?*

3

What is one boundary you need to communicate this week to protect your energy?*

How to use Relationship Circle in coaching

  1. Agree on a focus, such as support during a job change or protecting time outside work. Ask what the client wants to understand about their relationships.
  2. Invite the client to place initials or role labels in circles that reflect the closeness and support they currently experience. Let them define what each circle means; family ties do not automatically imply closeness.
  3. Explore the pattern with neutral questions: Who provides which kind of support? Where is a request unclear? Avoid deciding who should move closer or further away on the client’s behalf.
  4. Use the follow-up questions to explore one boundary. Moving a label on a worksheet does not itself change a relationship. Discuss context, safety, and the practical consequences of a conversation before choosing an action.

Worked example: a fictional coaching conversation

Fictional example: Jo is studying alongside a full-time role and wants to protect two evenings each week. The example is separate from the editable worksheet.

Inner circle

A friend who listens without immediately offering solutions.

Middle circle

A manager who can clarify priorities but does not know Jo’s study schedule.

Outer circle

A professional group that offers occasional advice.

Boundary to explore

Jo wants to explain availability instead of responding to every non-urgent message after work.

Next action: on Monday, Jo will ask the manager to agree which messages can wait until the next working day. Review the response and adjust the boundary at the next session.

Choose a next step with your client

  1. Name one existing source of support and one specific request the client could make.
  2. Draft a boundary in the client’s words, with a realistic alternative where appropriate.
  3. Agree when to review the result. Respect a decision to delay a conversation if the context makes it unsafe or impractical.

Frequently asked questions

What do the circles represent?

They represent the client’s chosen meaning of closeness, trust, or support. Define that meaning before placing people, and avoid assuming that one arrangement is ideal.

Should I tell my client to remove someone from their inner circle?

No. Ask about their experience, options, and constraints. The client decides what a relationship means and whether any action is appropriate.

Can I download this worksheet?

Yes. The PDF includes the complete worksheet and your current entries. Preview answers are temporary and are not saved or transferred through signup.

How do I use it with a client?

Select this template, create an account or log in, then choose or add a client. Review the delivery settings before confirming the assignment. Your template selection lasts in the current browser session.

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